. . . to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure,
working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. ~Titus 2:3-5 (ESV)
Welcome to Tabitha's Heart & Hands!
This site is dedicated to helping Christian women be the women God wants us to be - at home, at work, in the church and in
the community. Through teaching, encouraging and edifying one another, we can all become women who will glorify God with
our lives. The name for the site comes from Tabitha in Acts 9:36 who was known for her acts of kindness. Like Tabitha, let
us use our hearts, our hands and our homes to serve God.
This Week's News
Newsletter:The May newsletter has been sent. If you are on the mailing list and didn't receive it, you might want
to check your spam folder. It can be viewed on the Newsletter Archives page if you missed it. If you have not subscribed, you may do so by following the instructions in the box at the bottom of the page. If you have any questions about the process, feel free to email us.
Contests: The deadline for the recipe
contest is May 31st so if you haven't entered, do it soon. For details, see the Recipes for Hospitality page.
Knitting: As a Mother's Day surprise, I have added my latest design to the Hands of Service page. It is a perfect design for gift giving - just in time for Mother's Day and the wedding season. The update on the Hands of
Service is still underway so expect more updates coming in the next few days.
Bible Study - There have been
several updates on the Bible Study page. The topic of the month is Jonah. We have added a link to an excellent online video
study on the Minor Prophets.
Blog Updates: Both of my blogs now have new addresses. I hope it makes the addresses easier to remember. Tabitha
Knits blog can now be found at this address: http://knit.tabithasheart.com and Tabitha's Heart blog can be found at this address: http://blog.tabithasheart.com.
Bible Resources: We are deeply saddened to have to make some changes on the Bible resources that Tabitha's
Heart provides. Shipping costs and gasoline prices are increasing rapidly so we have had to set some limits on what products
can be shipped to what locations. We are also going to limited to how often we can ship items - probably only once a month.
We now will have to ship all items the cheapest possible rate which unfortunately happens to be the slowest. So while we
will send your information but it may not arrive very quickly. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience that this might
cause. In most cases, we can provide an online source for the materials should you need them quickly. If you would like
an online source, please see the international materials page or email me. Again we are very sorry for the inconvenience, but our operating budget is very small.
Bible Quiz:
The new Bible quiz is nearly ready. It should be up and running by the end of the week along with a contest to go with it.
Coming soon:
New recipes
More updates to knitting patterns
Updates on the Bible Study page
including some new resources for study
New teaching resources
New Bible Quiz at last
A new contest
New
Bible puzzle ebook for download.
Music: This week's music selection is Sing and Be Happy.
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In Acts 28, after Paul and his shipmates survived a shipwreck and landed on Malta, the stranded passengers found themselves
cold and wet in a strange place. The natives, however, were friendly and built a fire for them all (Acts 28:2). It is interesting
that Paul "gathered a bundle of sticks and laid them on the fire" (3). This was when Paul was bitten by an apparently deadly
viper. Somehow, in reading this part of Paul's journey to Rome, I overlooked a fundamental fact that helped make Paul great.
Paul did his part. When the others had built that fire, Paul was not content to let the others do it all. He did his share.
Not only that, he did his share even at great, personal cost. He did his share, though he might have rationalized that he
had already done so much and been through so much. Paul noted their unusual kindness and was made to feel very welcome.
He showed his appreciation in a tangible way.
You may be a busy, active servant of God. You may have done much in the past for the cause of Christ. Yet, think about how
notable it is and inspiring to others, when you gather your own bundle of sticks to help the fire others have started. It
may be noted and remembered long after you are gone.
I have been dabbling in knitting design (for evidence see here,here or here)and I have come to the conclusion that designing is actually hard work. It takes a significant amount of creativity and thought
to convert an idea into a concrete item and then to put that information into a format that someone else can understand and
appreciate. It is not something that happens by accident or without a bit of effort. Yet, there are those who say just the
opposite about the world in which we live. There are those who think that the beauties and wonders of this universe are just
happy accidents that occurred over billions and billions of years. But is that really true?
If you will kindly indulge me, I would like to share with you my journey to a deeper understanding of the origins of the universe.
This has been a long and often difficult process for me. One that frequently required to rethink what I had been taught. Since
this was a rather lengthy process, I will not attempt to write it all in one post.
First, let me give tell you a little bit about my background. I was reared in a semi-religious home. My family was sporadic
in church attendance so while I had been given a reasonable exposure to the Bible, it was not something that was deeply ingrained
in me. When I went to college, I, for the most part, gave up religion. I found "churches" to be full of hypocrites and I came
to doubt most of what I was taught as a child.
Throughout elementary and high school my favorite subject was always science so when I went to college, science was the natural
course of study for me. Though my emphasis changed several times while I was in college (shifting from a medical to a research
orientation), my major field of study was always science (biology/math major; chemistry minor). There was a precision and
order to the sciences that I found very appealing. There was a beauty to the way one branch of science interacted with another
that I found fascinating.
The course of study in any science field is pretty strenuous. There aren't a lot of “goof-off “ classes and most
of the allowed electives are science electives. So most semesters, I took at least one biology, one chemistry and one math
and usually one other science (physics, geology, etc). Biology, being the science of life, gave me more opportunity to study
the how life began, how species are interrelated and how it all fits together.
The rigorousness of a biology program doesn't provide one much time to digest what is learned. Mostly, you were stuffing the
information into your head as quickly as possible in order to spit it back out on the tests. There simply wasn't time to
question things, because you were too busy learning a of myriad facts - phyla, genera, species, bones, muscles, tissues, organs,
etc. Your head was so full of facts that there was little room for logical reasoning. It was in this environment that I learned
the theory of evolution and the general theories on the origin of the universe.
I will begin by explaining in simple terms the origin of the universe from the biological standpoint. According to what I
was taught, the universe began when a ball of matter inexplicably exploded causing a great release of energy and sending bits
of itself spiraling outward throughout the universe. Some bits of this matter formed stars, others formed planets, still others
formed asteroids or other various space rocks. As the spiraling continued, some of the bits of miscellaneous space debris
began developing orbits around the various stars, giving rise to solar systems. Through a series of random occurrences, the
earth developed an orbit around its star (our sun) at a location that was neither too close nor too far from its source of
heat and light. That unique location allowed the formation of certain organic (carbon-based) compounds in a sort of primordial
soup. That group of chemicals was then radically changed by some major dynamic event (a lightning strike, for instance) to
become the first living organism. Over a period of hundreds of billions of years, this organism evolved from a single cell
creature to a multi-celled organism and eventually, through a combination of random mutation and natural selection, into the
thousands of species that we see today. That is the short version.
There is some biological evidence that would seem to support this theory. For example, the similarity of features between
one species and another would seem to suggest that they were once related. The bone structure of the frog, for example, is
remarkable like that of the human. A pig fetus develops in a manner similar to a human. Is this proof that these radically
different species developed from common ancestors? Or is there another possible solution?
In my study of knitting design, I have come to realize that I can recognize certain style elements of a particular designer.
I can look at a pattern and often know who the designer is based on the overall style or certain unique design elements of
the item. Likewise, there is also a similarity between the different projects of architects, painters, sculptors, etc. Is
it not possible then, that the reason there are so many similarities between one species of animal and another is simply that
they had the same designer? Is it possible that rather than the elaborate theories of evolution, that it is possible that
the earth could actually have been created exactly the way the Bible claims?
We will explore these ideas in the coming posts. I am hoping that you will enter these studies with an open mind. I admit
to a certain amount of bias when I began searching for these answers. As I college student, I tended to accept the word of
my professors without question. I hope that you will enter into this study with the desire to follow where the evidence leads.
Playing God
We sometimes refer to someone's actions as "playing God." By that, we usually mean that they are standing in judgment
over another person in a way that only God can, or that they are making a decision regarding who will live or who will die.
Most of the time, we use that term in a negative way. I heard a story recently, though, told by Mee Spousler that sheds
a whole new light on the term "playing God."
Mee tells how she was trying to put her three-year-old son to bed for a nap. When she was unsuccessful, she put him in
her bed and laid down with him to encourage him to rest. She fell asleep, but he didn't. When she woke up, she saw him sitting
on a chair at the end of the bed, and asked, "Luke, what are you doing?"
"I'm playing God," he replied.
"Playing God?" she asked.
"Yes," he said. "I'm watching over you while you sleep."
What a beautiful thought, because that is what God does. David wrote: "I cried to the Lord with my voice, and He heard
me from His holy hill. I lay down and slept; I awoke, for the Lord sustained me." (Psalm 3:4-5)
Wouldn't it be great if we could all, like that 3-year-old boy, learn to "play God" in ways that would impact this world
for good?
We need to "play God" by looking at the hearts of people rather than the clothes they are wearing.
We need to "play God" by forgiving those who have offended us.
We need to "play God" by refusing to allow race or the color of a person's skin to create barriers.
We need to "play God" by being patient, kind, and loving to the the people we deal with throughout the day.
We need to "play God" by showing compassion to those who are suffering or in need.
We need to "play God" by keeping our promises and living lives of honesty and integrity.
We need to "play God" by living in such a way that we reflect the nature of our Heavenly Father.
I hope and pray that people around you will see you "playing God" this day.
I will not strike back. If someone is rude, if someone is impatient, if someone is unkind, I will not respond
in that way (Romans 12:19).
I will ask God to bless my enemy. If I come across someone who treats me harshly or unfairly, I will quietly
ask God to bless that individual (Matthew 5:44). I understand my enemy could be a family member, a neighbor, a co-worker,
or a stranger.
I will be careful about what I say. I will carefully choose and guard my words, being certain that I do not
spread gossip (James 3:1–6).
I will go the second mile. I will find ways to help share the burden of another person (Matthew 5:41).
I will forgive. I will forgive those who hurt me (Luke 23:34).
I will secretly do something kind for someone. I will reach out anonymously and bless the life of another
(Ephesians 4:32).
I will treat others the way I wish to be treated.
I will practice “the Golden Rule” (Matthew 7:12).
I will do unto others as I would have them do to me, with everyone I encounter.
I will raise the spirits of someone who is discouraged.
My smile, my words, my expressions of concern and
support can make a difference to someone facing a challenge (Romans 14:19).
I will take care of my body.
I will eat less . . . I will eat healthier . . . I will exercise . . . I will
be thankful . . . My body will be a fitting temple for Him who dwells in me (1 Corinthians 6:19–20).
I will grow spiritually. I will spend more time in study, prayer, and meditation. I will retreat from life’s
pressures and distractions and seek to learn God’s will (2 Peter 3:18).
"So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy,
complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.
Do nothing
from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his
own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,who,
though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking
the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient
to the point of death, even death on a cross.
Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that
is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every
tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
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